Traditions
Traditions are marvelous things, aren’t they? The best traditions anchor our celebrations, our family and church life, and even our culture’s collective experience.
Sometimes, though, traditions become Traditions with a capital “T.” In this age of Instagram and Pinterest, it’s easy to look at other people’s traditions, particularly those around the holidays, and think, “I should be doing that.” My kids won’t really experience Christmas until I have wrapped up 24 books for us to open each day of Advent. Or, my kids won’t get the real meaning of Christmas if we don’t handcraft our own Jesse Tree ornaments.
Those practices are lovely and meaningful traditions for certain families, but just because one family on Instagram is doing one thing doesn’t mean your family has to do the same thing.
A Simple Tradition
I offer my family’s Christmas book tradition below, knowing it won’t be for everyone. But perhaps it will resonate with some of you and provide a fun, new way to enjoy some low-key family time, particularly if you have older kids.
Three years ago, I stumbled across an article about Iceland’s Yule Book Flood. I can’t remember the specific article now, but two things stood out to me: books and chocolate. Perfect.
My kids were ages 9 and 10 that year, we were in a new state/new house, and many of our former Christmas traditions were changing.
I jumped at this possible new tradition, and it’s now a firm part of our Christmas festivities. It’s a perfect way to enjoy some cozy time with bigger kids, to turn off the screens and noise for a while, and just enjoy the anticipation of the coming day. This is not a particularly spiritual tradition, but it is a very family-centric practice and that has its own benefits.
The Christmas Book Flood
Every year, I give my kids a new book. Those used to get lost in the shuffle of Christmas morning hoopla and other, shinier presents. Now, those same books have been moved to the night before. Everyone gets to unwrap a new-to-them book, accompanied by some chocolate, and they may stay up as late as they’d like reading that book. No bedtime. No brushing of the teeth required!
And, they get to sleep out by the Christmas tree. We do this with all the cousins who might be present as well.
It’s now something everyone looks forward to, and it’s our fourth year. My kids are speculating on what this year’s Christmas Eve book is going to be (it’s never a reference type book, but a novel or narrative nonfiction; it must be the kind of story they want to dive into and read!). I’ve already ordered them and had them shipped to our Christmas destination. It’s daunting to pick a book someone will want to read that very minute, but so far, so good.
What are your family’s bookish Christmas traditions?
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Love this! My son is 12 and this would be right up his (and his parents) alley.
Every year my mom, a retired kindergarten teacher, reads a picture book on Christmas Eve. Everyone stops and listens, old and young. The kids stop running around, calm down, and it’s the perfect kick off for present opening. She picks a new book every year. Four generations sitting down to hear a book and look at the pictures. Bliss!
I love this and it was actually my inspiration for our first “Reading Festival” that will be an ongoing tradition with my kids. On the first day of Christmas break we read books and stayed in our jammies all day. ????????
Wonderful! Enjoyed reading about your tradition…especially the no brushing required for one night.
We do something similar on Christmas Eve. Ours is a book hunt. I wrap up about 6 bundles of books (I have a hard time whittling the list down, so sometimes it’s just one book per package and sometimes it’s two or three). I give the kids a silly rhyming clue that leads to the first package of books hidden somewhere in the house, then that package will have a clue for the next bundle and so on. My kids are 7-12 right now so we do a mixture of picture books, longer chapter books and everything in between. I do this for Valentines Day, also, so altogether this gives us lots of options to curl up with throughout year. I agree with the other comment about how it makes the books special and they don’t get lost in the shuffle on Christmas morning. It also provides me one hour or so of glorious silence as they all sit down excitedly with their books 🙂
Jennifer: What a great idea!
We started this in 2020 and my kids are most excited for it! I set up two snack boards (one sweet, one savory) and piles of books for each person on the coffee table while the family gets ready for the Christmas Eve church service. It’s ready and waiting when we get home! Quick into jammies and
then we snuggle up all night to read and snack. I collect the books second hand all year. We’re pretty minimalist with everything else so a pile of new-to-you books is an abundant indulgence that really communicates holiday spirit.
Oh, the snack boards are a terrific idea!